A new perspective for an empowered relationship to your body, identity and purpose at midlife.

The Tilt Shift offers professional & transformational coaching and educational programs, a thought leading midlife methodology, and community, all underpinned by internal safety, self-confidence and integrated awareness.

What are your midlife longings?

Can you imagine a world where midlife women confidently redefine their relationship to full spectrum pleasure and freely embody and transmit their true eros and power.

Introducing a new midlife narrative where a full awareness of body wisdom, divinity & self-authority reigns.

You exist in a culture that heavily conditions the (peri)menopausal woman to doubt and misunderstand your relationship to your changing body, sexuality and instinct. The mainstream experience of sexuality is typically experienced through a narrow lens and singular pattern of arousal (fast, penetrative focus with a peak and drop climactic goal) and up until now there has been very little discourse around alternative arousal patterns that support women’s changing bodies.

You are not broken, you belong. Step into a new experience of leadership by tapping into your own unique wisdom, sensuality and eros. This energy has the capacity to naturally expand post menopause when we transform the toxic cultural narrative we have been conditioned to believe around what it means to reach midlife.

Welcome to a movement where women don’t fear or wish midlife away, but rather awaken to a new found pulse for life. Together we can change the paradigm, and inspire younger women who are proud to call themselves midlife women. A true and significant marker of feminist progress.

Join me in the Midlife Desire movement!

Join the waitlist for my new online program, coming soon.

THE MIDLIFE DESIRE CODES

Hello powerful woman, I’m so very happy you landed here.

I’m Shae, I turned 48 last year and I’m a solo mama to my 16 yo daughter, Stella. I’m also a sexual wellness and embodiment coach, teacher, speaker and corporate wellness consultant and I’m four years post menopause—yes, it happened young. My journey to early menopause acceptance has transformed my entire life. I have become more grounded, embodied and self-trusting in the unfurling of my life, but it hasn’t been an easy ride—not in the least. My personal journey, and that of all menopausal women, has inspired my work which is igniting the liberation, spark and deep belonging of midlife women everywhere. You can read more about me and my early menopause journey here.

  • "I am travelling along AMAZINGLY since working with Shae!  It's hard to put it into words but here's a summary. I've been feeling more grounded and electric, I've started writing poetry, tasks that I've been putting off for years I am happily doing with ease, my body is moving more fluidly, I feel more whole and steady, I'm more open and patient and most of all present…I'm also able to receive love better. I have a general sense that I'm doing what I want to be doing all the time. The work we did was an initiation into deeper levels of womanhood. You are a very skilled, compassionate and knowing woman and I am so thankful to have met you."

    Suzanne

  • “The transformation I’ve had since working with Shae is incredible. I went to her looking for help to open up sexually, what I received and continue to receive from her goes way above and beyond this. The journey towards connecting sexually, starts with authenticity, self expression, self care, self love and more! I realised I was trying to jump to the euphoric orgasmic state without having connection and true intimacy with myself first and then with my partner. Thank you Shae, thank you, thank you, thank you! I so appreciate your wisdom and guidance and look forward to the ongoing growth and progress I get to experience when I work in partnership with you. Five stars”.

    L.R.

  • “I do not even have words for how powerful a shift I have felt since working with Shae. My relationships have benefited and my sexual energy is flowing. I feel great and confident I am on the right path. Not once did I feel afraid to explore my deeper self with Shae as my guide. She established a safe and open space for me to set boundaries and fully surrender to the work we did. A true mother embodying the healer and nurturer, I could not have anticipated the level of trust that allowed me to fully receive the gift of awakening and express myself without hesitation. A truly powerful experience I would recommend to any woman wanting to re-connect with her body”.

    Scarlett

  • “Since working with Shae I've experienced a deep sense of knowing and wisdom, the safety of knowing who I am. I find myself being attractive and people gravitate towards me. I feel open and I'm asking for what I want out of life and in relationships which has been difficult in the past. Now I know that I deserve it. I feel sexy, beautiful and alive! Thank you for holding such a beautiful, nourishing and honouring space for me to be and dive deep."

    J.R.

  • “After the incredibly deep and powerful work I did with Shae, I feel transformed. Shae's unique ability to hold space so lovingly anchored and centred in her heart offers the safety for full expression and full permission to process the entire emotional landscape. I 'm now more connected to my heart, de-layered, lighter and open with waves of effortless joy. The outcomes have continued to overflow into my relationships and work contributing to some major shifts just within a couple of weeks. I am truly grateful to Shae for her work that is without a doubt quite literally life-changing."

    D.F.

  • "Shae has been instrumental over the years in my path back to self, she created a safe, loving and nurturing space where the deepest of healing took place. I now feel a new found safety and presence within my body which replaced many years of complete disassociation. What is most divine is I am home, my heart has expanded and I feel completely empowered to be the sensual powerful women I was born to be."

    Rachel